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Loneliness can be a big problem. It can lead to oppression and depression, hopelessness and even suicide. You can be alone without being lonely, but real loneliness is often evidence of an emptiness of soul. And there’s only one thing that can remedy that emptiness and fill you up.
That at that time you were without Christ….having no hope and without God in the world. Ephesians 2:12a,c
I became a believer (and receiver) of Christ shortly before I turned 23. My experience of that moment was a fullness of realization that God loved me. His love filled me up and changed me forever. I wasn’t in a church. I was working, and happened to be standing on a sidewalk in front of a business. Before that occurrence, a crushing loneliness had been a constant companion in my thoughts and feelings. There was no one who really knew who I was or who truly cared about me. The love and affection of my parents, siblings and friends (what there was) just never reached into and filled my heart.
That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith, that you being rooted and grounded in love may be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth and length and depth and height, and to know (ginosko – know by experience) the love of Christ, which passes knowledge (literally, the text reads, “and to know the hyperbolic (surpassing) love of Christ), that you might be filled with all the fullness of God. Ephesians 3:17-19
I felt like I was the first person in all of existence to discover this love, for it truly went beyond any experience I’d ever had, or even heard about. It went beyond anything I had ever known. It surpassed the sum total of all the facts and knowledge I held in my mind. One of the things that accompanied that first revelation of God’s love was a heartfelt love for the people around me. I loved everyone! I was like a fountain, overflowing with a supernatural desire that everyone else experience what I was experiencing.
Notice in Ephesians 3:18 above that it is written, may be able to comprehend with all saints. This amazing, life-filling experience of God’s dynamic, eternal, immutable love is meant to be a communal experience.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son, that whosoever believes upon him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16
That everlasting life is God’s everlasting love, and it is meant for everyone, not just me. But only those who believe unto Christ receive this love, for God will not force even His love onto or into us.
For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities or powers, nor things present, nor things to come, Nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing shall be able to separate me from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:38,39
God’s love is meant for the whole world; that is, every person who has ever lived, and it has the power to perform a truly amazing feat (besides filling up each person who believes unto Jesus Christ). It has the power to build a network, to connect a limitless number of people with one another. That’s good, because it will take everyone who has ever lived and believed, as well as everyone who will ever live and believe, to house the eternal Creator, experiencing Him as a hyperbolically loving Father of fullness.
That their hearts may be comforted, being knit together in love, and unto all riches of the full assurance of understanding, to the acknowledgement (epignosis – thorough experiential knowing) of the mystery of God… Christ. In whom are hid all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge (gnosis – experiential knowing). Colossians 2:2,3
A large part of what we can expect to receive and experience in the future (our inheritance) involves this interconnectedness with others. We have not been designed to do this on our own! I have discovered that the only true, deep, fulfilling connection I ever have with another human is the work of God’s love. Seeking connection is one of the ways my Father has taught me to love others. My desire to connect with others energizes God’s love within me, making it happen, if their hearts are open. It’s God’s glorious working in me and through me toward others, and it began the moment I was filled with His love, now almost 51 years ago!
If we love one another, God dwells in us and His love is perfected (fully realized) in us. I John 4:12b
No longer do I ache with loneliness, with that crushing emptiness which had led me to so many destructive and corruptive practices and habits (alcoholism, sex addiction, drug addiction, depression, anxiety and fear, envy and anger and strife… to name a few of the spirits which used to plague me). Now I can sit alone in a house, or be out in the world and be filled with the fullness of God’s love for me, doing nothing special! And even today, when I am with other people, that love within still seeks to connect with others, to communally share in the riches of God’s unfathomable, unbounding and eternal love.
To whom God would make known what is the riches of the glory of this mystery among the Gentiles, which is Christ in (in and among) you (plural), the hope of glory. Colossians 1:27
Immediately after being baptized by John, Jesus was filled with the spirit and the first thing he heard His Father say to him was:
You are my beloved son. In you I am well pleased. Luke 3:22b
That’s love! Jesus was the only person this message from God was intended for. “Hey son, I love you immensely!” Immediately after, the spirit of his Father led him out into the wilderness for 40 days. Why? To be alone with his Father… and to learn to recognize the voice and working of the devil (the other spiritual power). Alone, but not lonely. Alone, but filled up.
And he (Jesus) is the head of the body, the assembly; who is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead; that in all things he might have the preeminence. For in him was all fullness pleased to dwell (proper translation). Colossians 1:18,19
Jesus is the beginning, but he is not the ending. He was the first, but he is not the last. He is the first of a new race of beings, so to speak. Jesus is the prototype of this new creation, which at its apex has been designed to house the Creator of the universe as a Father to His children. The church. The assembly. The called out. The body of Christ.
What Jesus did while on earth, he did for Israel, to fulfill the promises God had made to the fathers of Israel. He came to make plain the one true God, and to defeat the devil and his works, chief of which is death. These things he did while on the earth. But the body of Christ, this organic temple of the living God, this he didn’t begin to do until he had ascended into heaven and been glorified by his Father, seated at His right hand.
I hope this is not too difficult to understand. Let’s say it’s my job as a boat builder to build a specific boat to exact specifications, and I do so. There, I completed my job. Now the person who ordered the boat from me surprises me. He hires me and trains me to captain the boat and sail around the world, and I do so, breaking new speed records. You see, I as the boat builder did not accomplish the speed record, but I did make it possible. It was I as the boat captain that broke the record. So it is with Jesus Christ and the building of the spiritual body of Christ, the dwelling place of God. He made it possible by what he accomplished while on earth, but it’s in his new role as head of the spiritual body of Christ that he is fulfilling the ultimate plan of God.
That in the administration of the fulness of times, He (God) might gather together in one all things in Christ, both which are in heaven and which are on earth; in him. And (God) has put all things under his (the glorified Christ, Jesus’) feet, and gave him to be the head over all for the assembly, which is his (Jesus’) body, the fullness of him who fulfills everything in everyone. Ephesians 1:10,22,23
Our glory and our destiny is to be knit together with all believers in and by the spirit of God’s eternal love, which is fully manifested in and by the spirit of Christ. Whatever loneliness or emptiness we have experienced or ever have, will be a long distant memory in the not too distant future.
Now therefore you are no more strangers and foreigners, but fellow citizens with the saints (holy ones), and of the household of God; And are built upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief corner stone; In whom all the building fitly framed together grows unto a holy temple in the Lord; In whom you (plural) also are built together for a habitation of God through the spirit. Ephesians 2:19-22
All of creation is waiting for this to happen, when God’s love is fully manifested throughout all His creation.
For I reckon (logically reason) that the sufferings of this present time not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. For the earnest expectation of the creation waits for the manifestation of the sons of God. For the creation was made subject to vanity (in the garden), (not willingly, but by reason of him (the devil) who has subjected the same) in hope. Because the creation itself also shall be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the glorious liberty of the children of God. Romans 8:18-21
Filled and fully loved, not alone but together with those also begotten by God in Christ, being built together to house the creator of all existence, our Father.
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